Needs Improvement: How Do You Respond to Criticism?
Last week I mentioned that I had to submit a writing sample? I struggled with the sample mainly because I was writing in a different style. It’s a style that I’m not used to. It felt uncomfortable. I kept trying different approaches but still was unhappy. I imagine I added to the problem by not relaxing.
A few days later the website owner contacted me about my writing sample. He said it lacked the “punch” he was looking for (think New York Style Times) more; however, he told me he wasn’t impressed with my writing style. It lacked punch; however, he still hired me. Why? He was impressed with the writing samples I submitted. He stated that we should always look for ways to enhance out abilities. I couldn’t agree more. How can I improve is a question I ask myself often. I don’t ever want to become complacent.
Admittedly, I was nervous about the story. I tend to be a perfectionist; however, after it was completed I was happy. My approach is usually straightforward however on the new website where I’ll be writing I need to add more flavor. It’s something I can definitely do and I definitely see the benefits for using those techniques. However I’ll admit that I need practice in this area. Guess what? That’s hat’s exactly what I’ve been doing since I learned I received the job.
My first article was written the next day (this past Saturday.) Being open to change really helped me when I wrote that article. My first article made it to the first page of Google news, and a Mac website also picked up the story. I two days it received almost 2000 unique visitors for that one article. That’s not too shabby.
When a person gives you constructive criticism don’t take it personally. It might sting but guess what they are trying to help you. Quit being sensitive. Take their advice and figure out how you can improve. Your skills will improve.
I know we’ve all had met a person that cannot take constructive criticism. They get too defensive and take the advice given personally. They refuse to change. Don’t be that person.
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Excellent call on that one. Sometimes criticism hurts, but how else are we going to stay in check?
I thrive on constructive criticism! I love it when an editor, seasoned writer, or even a reader tells me something I could do to improve my writing or blogging. It’s a great way to change, grow, and become the best writer we can be at that time in our life.
Great post, Opal, and I’m so happy for you!
I hate criticism. I guess that’s why I try to do my best on the first cut. However, I have learned to take the criticism I get and, if it’s valid, use it to improve.
I agree - criticism is a key to growth.
If you don’t know what you’re doing wrong, how are you supposed to fix it?
It’s the same for anything - whether it’s writing, dating, driving, communicating, blogging, or whatever. I’d hate to know that I had a problem that was bugging a lot of people, but nobody was willing to point it out to me. I am a perfectionist like you - and because of that I am always looking to improve.
Great article, and congrats on hitting the front page of Google news!
RLD,
Exactly! I can always learn from constructive criticism. Besides, if I were the “best” at everything that would get boring.
Michele,
I do also. It helps me improve.
Mike,
I always do my best but at times that just isn’t good enough. For example, when I started monetizing my blogs even though I did my “best” there was definitely room to improve. I received valuable tops from others and made improvements. When I was a child, I really had a problem with it. I took it personally. I got over it.
Chad,
I agree that can apply to many things. Thanks, I was shocked that it happened. I think the title had a lot to do with it. It did grab attention.
Hi Opal - I like criticism when it is useful, as it helps me work out ways to improve. But I usually ignore negative critisism and putdowns.
Sometimes it can be quite difficult to get feedback from people at all. Often when you ask how you can improve something, they’ll avoid telling you, because they don’t want to offend you. So, generally, I welcome feedback when I manage to get it.
I don’t get criticism because I strike fear into the hearts of all my clients. BWAHAAHAAA
I think one of the byproducts of the modern education system is that we spend years learning how to write for school. Then we get out and have to learn to write in our own voice. That can be a long ongoing process. Couple that with the fact that different clients are looking for different things…
I don’t necessarily like to have my work critiqued, but it comes with the territory. I have to remember that I need to have thick skin sometimes.
Catherine,
There is definitely a difference between constructive criticism and someone being nasty. I avoid that type of criticism also.
The Word Wrangler,
lol
Jim,
I don’t mind it anymore. I don’t hear it a lot but when I do I definitely welcome it. Yes, at times it can sting but I have learned a lot.